In today’s world, we have often seen relationships getting strained due to various reasons. The prime concern may be ego, jealousy amongst partners, extra marital affairs etc. Most of the relations are based on a thin red line because the partners are not able to respect each other. So, basically the main point which circles for a longer relationship is ‘Respect’. For any long-term relationships, mutual respect is one of the basic necessity, which should be maintained and if any one of the partner loses basic respect for the other individual, the relationship breaks. Relationships can be in entrepreneurship, love affairs, business partnership or matrimonial alliances.
This astrology article is about analysis to such challenging situations. For example, someone has Planet Rahu or Uranus placed in the 7th house from ascendant, then throughout one’s life, the native will have to work towards making one’s relationship better. There will be many ups and downs with chances of extra marital affairs.
Rahu is the planet which is never satisfied and hence with this placement of 7th house Rahu from ascendant and 1st house Ketu will make the native perform in his/her home. Ketu in the first house will question the individual about one’s reason for existence. Planet Rahu will also make the natives spouse dominant and the native will be attracted to opposite gender. Aspect of Jupiter can significantly reduce the ill effects and no matter how much troubling the alliance may be, ultimately it will sustain.
I have seen horoscopes of many people and have observed that any aspect of Jupiter on the 7th house help in retaining the marriage, no matter how much afflictions the person be in. Jupiter is the planet for expansion and aspects of Jupiter, help the couple to understand each other spiritually and respect each other. That’s what is required in today’s world, which is all about understanding better.
Any aspects of Saturn on the 7th house, Rahu on the 7th house or Planet Ketu on the 7th house is not good for any native or their spouse. All these combinations lead to frustrations which encourages separation. Saturn aspect in the 7th house, if not its own house i.e. Capricorn or Aquarius leads to many challenging situations.
Even Manglik Dosh may be minimized, if the 7th house have the aspect of planet Jupiter. In Hindu astrology, Mangal Dosha is an astrological combination that occurs if Mars (Mangal) is in the 1st, 2nd (Considered by South Indian Astrologers), 4th, 7th, 8th, or 12th house of the ascendant chart. A person born in the presence of this condition is termed a manglik.
It is believed to be unfavorable for marriages, causing discomfort and tension in relationship, leading to severe disharmony among the spouses and eventually to other bigger problems. Now, let us analyse as to why a Mangalik Person is advised not to marry a Non- Mangalik Person.
I have observed in charts that Mars have very high energy in Mangalik Persons and hence they are generally aggressive. Now, if the other individual is not aggressive, chances are, that the other individual will not able to match the energy of the individual having Mangalik dosh. See, the logic is very simple, when someone is aggressive in all sectors of life, the other person can not enjoy, if that person is not able to contribute. Any contribution open up options for both individual. It is suggested that Mangalik individual have to marry another Mangalik and if not done, then a puja need to be performed. But by that logic, there are many events, where even a Puja has not able to stop a marriage breaking up. There lies something else, which matters and i.e understanding each other’s priorities.
There are ways to reduce the Mars energy in an individual through which one can reduce the Anger and Agitation and keep going on with the other individual, but all these needs detailed checking of horoscopes.
Sun or Apollo, the Roman God when sits in ones 7th house from Ascendant in Vedic Astrology, these creates problems. Often it is seen the spouse may be dominating in nature and the other individual have to lower ones tune in order to continue the relationship. Lord Sun in the 7th house also means that sometimes there may be early health problems for the native. Mercury is always close to Sun and hence sometimes, it is observed that a perfect Budh aditya Yoga is formed in the 7th house, which helps the native to continue in the relationship with intelligence.
If the 7th Lord in the horoscope is placed in the 12th house from lagna, which is the 6th house from the 7th house then the native takes one’s spouse as contemporary and it also states that the spouse will be one of the reason for huge expenses. But it depends on other astrological parameters.
Reasons of divorce rises when the 7th Lord is afflicted by the malefic planets or have aspects of Saturn or the 7th Lord is in combination with malefic which gives rise to legal problems. If the 6th lord have aspect with malefic planets or in not well placed, it may give rise to legal problems, which ultimately lead to divorce.
While combination of Rahu with Venus in male horoscope and combination of Rahu with Jupiter also need to be seen for any successful marriage or relationship to take place. Placement of Venus, Moon, Mercury in the 7th house generally makes a good relationship.
It is said that marriage is made in heaven and any relationship happens when one individual feels relaxed in the company of the other individual. So, for a good relationship, even the moons signs in vedic astrology must match. So, anyone having Leo Moon Sign is compatible with Aries Moon sign, Scorpio Moon Sign, Cancer Moon Sign, Sagittarius Moon Sign, Pisces Moon Sign and to some extent with Gemini Moon Sign and Virgo Moon Sign. Leo Moon Sign goes well with some problems here and there with Taurus Moon Sign and Libra Moon Sign. Challenges arises when Leo moon sign makes a long term relationship with Capricorn Moon Sign or Aquarius Moon Sign. These moon signs are not as per the western Sun Signs but are based on the position of the Moon in zodiac as per vedic astrology.
Amongst all the discussion, and analysis for a stable relationship the planet Jupiter has a great role to play. So, enhancement of Jupiter in life helps to make relationship better. That’s the reason, where there is knowledge, where there is spirituality, where there is intellectuality, ego, jealousy, anger, frustrations, depression goes away.
So, read more, stay contented more, understand each other more to remain in a happy and prosperous relationship.
The above write up is a general prediction and are my personal views which may not match with astrologers or others. While Destiny is hard work and luck, we wish everyone great success in one’s good endeavours. The above article is based on my experience of reading astrology subject and looking into the practicalities of the situation based on horoscope analysis for all these years.
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Writer:
Mainak, Astro Specialist
